I don't know how to be seeing someone that is seeing other people and I'm not seeing anyone else. I used to have the motto that I couldn't be one of yours unless you were one of mine. Now, I prefer to spend my time on one man at a time. Just because I'm interested in a relationship doesn't mean I'm interested in a relationship with every man I meet. I will talk to more than one man at a time but not become emotionally involved with more than one at a time. I don't think it unrealistic to desire someone who's not otherwise emotionally entangled with another, either, even if it is unlikely.
It's just like friends who have sadly tried to convince me that I should accept the fact a man is going to cheat on me and to just be with someone. HUH??? If I'm not a cheater I believe there is at least one man out there for me who is capable of the same loyalty, and I'm willing to wait on him. If I'm romantically uninvolved forever, at least I won't have settled for or given the most precious gift I can give, to someone who's undeserving. That's also the best gift I can give to myself.
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